Dudley and Bob with Matt — 93.7 KLBJ-FM, Austin — Friday, January 16, 2015
This Show
Part 1: Annoying Traits
Dale discusses getting angry at his wife Amanda for snapping her fingers at him during a business call, which triggered childhood memories of his father doing the same thing. This leads to a broader conversation about relationship triggers and how quickly people can reconcile after arguments. The hosts also discuss Dale’s ongoing attempt to not drink, with Dale admitting he finds Fridays boring without alcohol and doesn’t plan to quit forever. Multiple callers share their own relationship triggers.
Segments
- Show open and Bob’s Corvette shirt [00:00:19] — Dale teases Bob for wearing a Corvette shirt, which Bob claims to wear ironically. Technical issues with board levels at the start.
- Boyhood movie discussion begins [00:01:27] — Dale mentions watching Richard Linklater’s Boyhood and wanting to discuss it later. He notes how hard it is to watch films when you know the actors personally.
- Dale’s face surgery update [00:04:41] — Dale discusses his recent face surgery, mentioning numbness that could last up to two years and not being able to feel his face from ears to chin.
- Selma and Academy Awards controversy [00:05:42] — Discussion of Al Sharpton’s complaint about lack of black nominees and how Selma may have misrepresented LBJ’s role in civil rights.
- The finger-snapping incident [00:09:38] — Dale explains his childhood trigger – his wife snapped her fingers at him during a business call about a house sale, which reminded him of his father’s dismissive gesture and sent him into a rage.
- Amanda’s real estate career [00:13:58] — Dale discusses his wife’s success in real estate and Tom Slick forbidding him from talking about it on air due to FTC concerns and competing advertisers.
- Dale’s drinking philosophy [00:28:43] — Dale discusses his current attempt at sobriety, explaining he finds Friday nights boring without drinking and doesn’t plan to quit forever, just taking it day by day.
- Caller triggers discussion [00:37:01] — Multiple callers share their relationship triggers, including being questioned about how they’re doing tasks, passive-aggressive language, and spouses crying during arguments.
Guests
- Adam and Aaron (other) [00:01:44] — Two listeners in studio, both blocked by Daniel on social media
- Fortune Feimster (comedian) [00:44:12] — Mentioned as coming in later in the show
- Lewis Black (other) [00:08:48] — Austin Chronicle publisher scheduled to drop by (not the comedian)
Callers
- unnamed [00:30:16] — Relates to Dale about the snap-and-point gesture from spouses Caller agrees it’s about disrespect when family members can interrupt spouse but you can’t
- unnamed [00:38:46] — Wife asking condescending questions like ‘do you think you could do this for me?’ Bob validates the frustration, explaining women use qualifiers but men hear it as passive-aggressive
- unnamed [00:41:27] — Joke caller about wife’s boyfriend Dale immediately hangs up
- unnamed [00:41:52] — Wife crying during arguments Brief discussion about how crying ends arguments
- Kathy [00:42:46] — Her husband has childhood triggers like Dale, gets upset when she says ‘I don’t want to offend you, but…’ Dale offers advice that acknowledging the trigger usually diffuses it, discusses how men are constantly scared despite appearing strong
Quotes
Don’t you ever snap at me. I’m not joking.
Dale Dudley [00:09:41]
If you don’t call in, this is the last time I’ll ever take phone calls and I’ll kill myself.
Dale Dudley [00:37:01]
Men are constantly scared. We’re scared to death of taking care of the family.
Dale Dudley [00:43:36]
Part 2: The Theory of the Universe
This segment features the show’s typical banter with the ‘audience of one’ (two blocked listeners who donated). Dale discusses finding an old Winchester rifle in Nevada, then praises the film ‘Boyhood’ while lamenting he wasn’t cast in it. The conversation devolves into Carissa struggling with basic astronomy facts, reminiscent of a QVC host arguing whether the moon is a planet. Laura Presley’s continued election complaints are mocked, and Bob argues about whether drummer Marky Ramone is truly the ‘last living Ramone.’
Segments
- Audience of One Arrives [00:00:00] — Dale welcomes Aaron Haley and Adam Wolfe, two listeners Daniel has blocked on social media, who donated to be in studio. Adam brought his deceased dog’s ashes in a locked box.
- Parish vs Paris Typo [00:01:39] — Dale criticizes whoever posted Friday’s podcast description as ‘Parish shooting’ instead of ‘Paris shooting,’ causing confusion about the Charlie Hebdo attacks.
- Pet Cremation Discussion [00:04:40] — The group discusses private pet cremation services, referencing a Freakonomics podcast about crematoriums potentially mixing ashes. Adam opens his dog Sasha’s ashes on air.
- 132-Year-Old Rifle Found [00:12:49] — Dale shares the story of an 1873 Winchester rifle found leaning against a tree in Great Basin National Park after 132 years, blending in with the juniper.
- Civil War Timeline Confusion [00:13:35] — Carissa struggles with the timeline of the Civil War versus the Wild West era, confusing when slavery ended and what happened when.
- Elon Musk Visit Mentioned [00:19:58] — Dale briefly mentions Elon Musk was in Austin yesterday and teases upcoming segments.
- Bob’s Detroit Red Wings Obsession [00:24:38] — Dale questions Bob about his Detroit Red Wings bumper sticker and beanie, learning Bob used to travel to Detroit for business and attend games.
- Laura Presley Election Complaints [00:25:03] — Dale mocks Laura Presley for filing complaints about her recount, alleging it started ‘too early’ and voting records were printed before she arrived, despite losing by 1,291 votes.
- Marky Ramone Booking Debate [00:25:25] — Bob argues via email whether Marky Ramone is truly the ‘last living Ramone’ since original drummer Tommy Ramone quit and other members joined later. Dale decides to book him anyway.
- Boyhood Film Review [00:38:02] — Dale passionately reviews ‘Boyhood,’ initially struggling because he knows local actors Marco Perella and Bill Wise in it, but ultimately finding it a profound film about parenting rather than a conventional plot-driven movie.
- Moon Is a Planet Debate [00:46:49] — Dale plays a QVC clip of hosts arguing whether the moon is a planet or star, which leads to Carissa demonstrating similar confusion about astronomy, sparking mockery from the hosts.
- Theory of the Universe Rant [00:50:38] — Carissa complains that scientists don’t name things cleverly enough, struggling to articulate her point about ‘the theory of the universe’ and planetary naming conventions while the hosts mock her college education.
Guests
- Aaron Haley (other) [00:00:00] — Listener who donated to be in studio; Daniel has him blocked on social media for unknown reasons
- Adam Wolfe (other) [00:00:00] — Listener who donated to breaking-and-entering families charity; Daniel blocked him for Photoshop teasing. Brought his deceased dog’s ashes to the studio
Callers
- unnamed [00:02:00] — Called to compliment yesterday’s ‘chopped and screwed’ Boyz II Men song on the Sideshow podcast Brief positive interaction, Dale explains the Sideshow concept
Music
- Family of the Year — Song from Boyhood soundtrack played during discussion; Dale mentions knowing the band members
Quotes
We look kind of silly when we say Parish shooting
Dale Dudley [00:03:45]
People could say oh it’s picky… we have to hold our election officials to the highest standards
Dale Presley (quote) [00:30:05]
Laura the Dallas Cowboys were robbed of a Super Bowl… they didn’t go through as much
Bob Fonseca [00:32:47]
It’s one step above stripper and disc jockey
Dale Dudley [00:37:56]
Smart people don’t listen to this show
Dale Dudley [00:44:07]
I had a good valid point about astronomers and scientists not naming things very cleverly
Carissa Jade [00:54:01]
Part 3: Fortune Feimster and Louis Black
Fortune Feimster visits the studio for an extended interview, discussing her career path from radio intern to stand-up comedian, her Chelsea Lately break, and her upcoming sitcom with Tina Fey. Louis Black joins later to discuss the Austin Chronicle Music Poll and South by Southwest planning. Dale reflects on his career choices and regrets, particularly missing a dinner with Quentin Tarantino, Robert Rodriguez, and Mike Judge. The conversation touches on Austin film connections, the movie Boyhood, and the nature of success and regret in show business.
Segments
- Fortune Feimster Introduction [00:00:00] — Dale welcomes Fortune Feimster to the studio, immediately establishing a comfortable rapport. They discuss her name, Southern accent, and Dale’s familiarity with her comedy from Cap City promos.
- Fortune’s Real Name and Background [00:02:15] — Fortune reveals her real first name is Emily and that Fortune is her grandmother’s maiden name. She discusses growing up in Raleigh, North Carolina, and starting as a radio intern on the Bob and Madison show.
- Coming Out Story [00:05:05] — Fortune discusses her sexuality, dating Mormon boys in her youth, and eventually coming out. Dale shares his nephew’s similar experience and his accepting Church of Christ father.
- Breaking into Comedy [00:08:23] — Fortune explains how she moved to LA as Emily Proctor’s assistant, joined the Groundlings improv school, and eventually transitioned to stand-up comedy at the Comedy Store.
- Tina Fey Sitcom Deal [00:09:03] — Fortune reveals she sold a sitcom with Tina Fey about her family’s divorce, with both her parents producing. They’re waiting to hear if the pilot gets greenlit.
- Kelly Hurd Connection [00:20:28] — An amazing coincidence emerges: Fortune mentions knowing someone from Tyler, Texas, who turns out to be Dale’s high school friend Kelly Hurd. Dale recounts their drama teacher’s funeral tribute.
- Louis Black Arrives [00:24:36] — Louis Black joins to promote the Austin Chronicle Music Poll. Dale compliments Louis on his recent facelift and they begin discussing Austin music and film culture.
- Boyhood Discussion [00:26:08] — Dale and Louis discuss the film Boyhood, with Dale noting it’s really about parenting rather than the boy, and pointing out all the Austin actors in it like Steve Prince, Marco Perella, and Charlie Sexton.
- The Dinner Dale Missed [00:30:00] — Louis retells the infamous story of inviting Dale to dinner with Quentin Tarantino, Robert Rodriguez, and Mike Judge, which Dale turned down to attend a voice-for-theater class. All the directors were fans of the show.
- Music Poll Details [00:36:00] — Louis explains the Austin Chronicle Music Poll and the new Austin Music Industry Poll, encouraging listeners to vote online at austinchronicle.com through the end of January.
- Kim Fowley and Music History [00:40:00] — The conversation turns to Kim Fowley, manager of The Runaways, who grew up in Tyler, Texas. Louis shares stories about Kim discovering the Hanson brothers and his eccentric personality.
- Bill Hicks vs Sam Kinison [00:44:00] — Dale expresses frustration that a Sam Kinison movie is being made instead of a Bill Hicks film. Louis mentions he’s marginally involved with people trying to put together a Bill Hicks project.
- Career Reflection and Regret [00:47:00] — Deep discussion about career choices, regrets, and whether it’s human nature to question your path. Dale, Louis, and Fortune all discuss their moments of doubt and what keeps them going.
- Sobriety Discussion [00:52:00] — Dale reveals he hasn’t had a drink in 30-some days and discusses how boring sobriety can be, though he says he’ll never fully commit to it. Louis jokes about hating how wonderful his sober life is.
- Wrap-up and Promos [00:56:00] — Final plugs for Fortune’s shows at Cap City Comedy Club and the Austin Chronicle Music Poll. Dale thanks the studio audiences including Aaron and Adam Wolf who brought his cremated dog.
Guests
- Fortune Feimster (comedian) [00:00:00] — Stand-up comedian promoting shows at Cap City Comedy Club, discussing her career and upcoming Tina Fey sitcom
- Louis Black (other) [00:24:36] — Austin Chronicle co-founder promoting the Music Poll and discussing South by Southwest, Austin film community
- Aaron (other) [00:00:00] — Studio audience member, described as ‘arch-nemesis’ listener
- Adam Wolf (other) [00:00:00] — Studio audience member who brought his freshly cremated dog to the show
Quotes
I’m gay, but I don’t want to put myself in a box.
Fortune Feimster [00:00:35]
Why would you choose to be rejected? It’s so ridiculous when people say it’s a choice.
Dale Dudley [00:05:40]
Really? I’m gonna go see a fat lesbian do comedy? But the boyfriends are most excited to meet me.
Fortune Feimster [00:17:34]
Dale couldn’t go because he was singing show tunes somewhere.
Louis Black [00:30:25]
Kinison was novelty to me where Hicks was genius.
Dale Dudley [00:44:49]
I bet Daryl Hall for a long time thought he needed Oates.
Dale Dudley [00:54:45]